DRUŠTVENE MREŽE Mnogi su od svojih online života napravili unosnu karijeru

Šokantna ispovijest: Spavala sam sa skoro 200 nepoznatih muškaraca s Instagrama

Mediji potiču žene da stavljaju sadržaj koje inače ne bi, rekla je Lori

I. K. / Avaz.ba
02.11.2019 07:29

Lori Džejd: Instagram je igralište puno iskušenja

Foto: Instagram

Posljednjih se godina mnogo pisalo o utjecaju društvenih mreža na mentalno zdravlje i povećanje anksioznosti kod korisnika, ali sada su se društvene mreže počele kriviti i za poticanje ovisnosti o seksu, prenosi "The Sun". 

Otkad se Instagram pojavio 2010. godine, milioni korisnika otvorili su svoje račune krenuvši u borbu za prikupljanje pratitelja i lajkova. Mnogi su od svojih online života napravili unosnu karijeru, dok su neki, poput Lori Džejd Vudrof (Lurie Jade Woodruff), zbog društvenih mreža produbili svoju seksualnu opsesiju.

Kako tvrdi, na nju aplikacije poput Instagrama djeluju kao droge koje su hranile njenu želju za seksom.   

- Instagram je igralište puno iskušenja - ističe Lori. 

Društveni mediji, ističe ona, potiču žene da stavljaju sadržaj koje inače ne bi.

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If You are an Addict, stop judging and hating yourself for it. As an Addict you have learnt a temporary way of coping with the Pain in your Heart. Your addiction will Only Numb it for so Long until the pain resurfaces again. The pain will always resurface until you begin to face your demons and take action and develop habits each day that help you manage this disease and from what I have learnt over the years about Addiction; it is a disease; so never shame or judge an Addict. If you know an Addict ; build them up, believe in them and tell them that they are worthy. Addiction is a vicious illness, it gradually destroys all areas of your life until you surrender and begin to do the difficult work of changing. Be there for one another and stop judging others over their addictions. Addicts do not enjoy their addiction, they may have at first but by the time it becomes an addiction, their lives have already started to fall apart. Please if you are reading this help yourself;the Road is not an easy one but is well Worthwhile. I Pray that you get the help you need and feel strong enough and worthy enough to make it happen. 🌻Sex Addiction - www.slaauk.org 🌼Drug Addiction - www.ukna.org 🌻Alcohol Addiction -www.aa.org 🌼Gambling Addiction- www.gamblersanonymous.org.uk 🌻Overeating Addiction - www.oa.org Thank you to @thesun For the Feature today. Discussing Sex Addiction & the Book I wrote ‘Diary of a Sex Addict.’ If you’d like to read a true and empowering story about Addiction then order your copy today. The Link is in my Bio xxx Photo by @andyjamesphoto #addiction #recovery #help #na #aa #news #exclusive #london #uk

Objavu dijeli Laurie Jade Woodruff (@lauriejaderotic)

- U mojoj najgoroj fazi ovisnosti bila sam opsjednuta idejom spavanja s neznancima. A društveni mediji to su učinili zastrašujuće jednostavnim ostvariti. Zaboravi na odlazak u bar, ili korištenje dosadnih aplikacija za spojeve, Instagram mi je omogućio da u toplini svog doma, besplatno, nađem partnera - otkrila je.

Priznala je da je do sada spavala sa 100 do 200 muškaraca, a u vrhuncu ovisnosti imala je seksualne odnose s tri nepoznata muškarca sedmično.

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Saying No. It's something we all struggle to do at times but is your inability to say no costing you your future Goals and happiness? If we all said yes to every invitation to go out, to every request of a favour or every social occassion; that takes a huge amount of time and and energy away from what truly matters. Time is precious; its the one thing we all have equality in and something we can never get back. It's nice to socialise, go on holidays and help people out but are the people you choose to spend time with helping or hindering you? The company we keep has a huge effect on our lives and should be carefully considered. I often ask myself ; "Does this serve my higher purpose and the most important Goals I have in my Life?" This helps me to decide whether to Say yes or no. Saying no isn't easy; we are all programmed to want people to like us from the times we lived in Tribes and needed to fit in and be liked in order to survive. If your Goals and dreams are important; saying no is something to become more comfortable with. Saying no gets easier with practice but is an important indicator of high self esteem and being focused what truly matters to you. We need to be social with other humans; it is a deep need but we must be careful to not unevenly tip the scales to where saying yes to things is a form of procrastination or avoidence of ones own destiny here on Earth. Chase your dreams and run with those who share your determination and high standards

Objavu dijeli Laurie Jade Woodruff (@lauriejaderotic)

Lori, koja je sada kvalificirani terapeut, kaže da je za nju seks bio samo brz način kako popuniti unutarnju prazninu.

- Osjećala sam se tako prazno iznutra zbog čega sam čeznula za prisnošću i bliskošću. Zbog toga bih oblačila u provokativnu odjeću te fotke objavljivala na Instagramu. Za samo nekoliko trenutaka bih dobivala brojne komplimente i poruke nepoznatih muškaraca - ispričala je ona.

Kako tvrdi, društvene mreže omogućile su joj  da na jednostavan način privuče pažnju. Ipak, ističe da joj je trebalo nekoliko godina da shvati koliko je štetna takva vrsta pažnje koja se isključivo temelji na fizičkom izgledu.

Lori se prisjetila jednog neugodnog iskustva koje ju je potaklo da ode na odvikavanje, iako ističe da je mogla završiti i puno tragičnije jer je nerijetko obraćala pažnju na svoju sigurnost tokom nalaženja s nepoznatim muškarca.

- Bio je petak navečer i bila sam preuzbuđena što se nalazim s novim nepoznatim tipom. Rekao mi je da sam jako lijepa, a kada smo došli do kreveta, postao je grub, zbog čega sam bila prestrašena. To je bio trenutak u kojem sam shvatila da je moja opsesija otišla predaleko te da moram nešto poduzeti - prisjetila se.

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